What it is
You can date up to 10 baes who are real players, or date one townsperson. You can have up to 4 spouses. With another player, you can get engaged, marry, have children and live together. Engaged and live-in partners can feed and play with each other’s children. Husbands and wives are residents in each other’s homes and can use the key, bed, bathroom and kitchen unless access is blocked.
How to date and marry
- Get close by chatting, gisting, hanging out and visiting until 💞 How close you are reaches 40.
- Tap the player → 💘 Ask to be my Bae. If you already have a bae, you can also choose 🤫 Sneaky link.
- After 3 days, go to Phone → Family → Propose. A ring costs ₦150,000.
- While engaged, either partner can propose a prenup: Phone → Family → your bae’s card → 📜 Sign a prenup with @…. Choose Keep what's mine or agree to a 10%, 25% or 50% share. The other partner can Sign or Decline. The person who proposed can Withdraw the offer while it is waiting.
- After 1 day engaged, choose Plan the wedding. It costs ₦500,000. A signed prenup applies to the marriage.
- After you marry, you can book a wedding party: Intimate costs ₦300,000 for 10 guests; Full owambe costs ₦2m for 40 guests; Society wedding costs ₦10m for 100 guests.
- You can book a wedding at an event centre instead of at home. Choose the hall when booking and pay its fee then.
Rules & numbers
- The other player must agree to each request. An ask can wait for up to 3 days. You do not get the ring or wedding money back if they say “not yet”.
- From day 1, a date gives 10 closeness. You can date the same partner once every 30 minutes.
- Each date with a sneaky link has a 25% chance of being caught. If you are caught, your other baes each lose 25 closeness with you.
- You can have a cozy night in every 12 hours, if your bae agrees.
- Each week after the wedding, your anniversary gives 15 closeness and 60 Rep.
- You can end a relationship in two taps, without the other person’s agreement. It takes effect at once and also ends living together.
- In a divorce, the settlement is based on earnings from while you were married, not money earned before the wedding. By default, the partner who did not file gets 60% of those earnings. The person who files gives up more. Either partner can offer an amount for the other to accept, from nothing up to twice the fair amount. You have 30 days to agree or take the matter to Live Court. A settlement cannot be more than ₦1bn.
- Signing a prenup costs nothing. Keep what's mine means nothing is split in a divorce. An agreed 10%, 25% or 50% share replaces the default split. The person who files still gives up an extra 10%, so a 50% prenup works like no prenup. A prenup does not prevent divorce.
- You can send money to a bae for free, from ₦100, once every 30 seconds.
- Your relationships are hidden unless you choose Settings → Privacy → 💞 Show my relationships. Sneaky links are never shown.